The seven C's can be a tool to help our members in our online community think about how they are not responsible for their parent of family members addiction. We recognise it's easy to say this though - and probably a lot harder to believe it's not your fault. With support, listening to and reading other's stories it is possible to recognise you never made them addicted and therefore cannot stop their addiction. Here at COAP one our key messages we want you to know is that it's not your fault. I didn't Cause it.I can't Cure it.I can't Control it.I can help Care for myself by Communicating my feelings,Making healthy Choices, andBy Celebrating myself.