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  • Jack Of All Trades And Master Of Mum

    ‘The most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved’ Mother Teresa of Calcutta

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  • Living a Life with an Alcoholic Parent

    By Charl89 - COAP Mentor

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  • Our Binge Drinking Culture

    By Marina - COAP Mentor
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  • There is hope for you!

    By pennyblog - COAP mentor

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  • Jack Of All Trades And Master Of Mum

    ‘The most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved’ Mother Teresa of Calcutta

    Read the article here

Are you living with some one else's addiction to drugs, alcohol or some form of addictive behaviour such as gambling? We have a team of online mentors who live with or have lived with someone else's addiction - they are here to reply to your messages and offer support. 

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Talk to others who understand. You are not alone anymore. 

Today Turning Point have reported that 2.6 million young people are affected by parental alcoholism.

At COAP young people have posted a lot of messages about a parents addiction to alcohol. We also have messages posted by young people living with a parent of family members addiction to drugs, and things such as gambling.

Watch Emma talk about her mum's addiction to alcohol.

Thoughts & Quotes

Truly, it is in darkness that one finds the light, so when we are in sorrow, then this light is nearest to us.
When it is dark enough you can see the stars.
The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Friendship improves happiness and abates misery by doubling our joy and dividing our grief
Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact
Always be yourself
theres this other part of me;that keeps on repeating...."Dont Give Up Just Yet"
Even in the darkest of nights there will be stars to guide you...
You have to try...if you havent tried you havent lived....
You might call me a dreamer.
"You have no idea what a poor opinion I have of myself and how little I deserve it."
All i want is happiness. I am tired of being let down.
Through your thoughts you are either gaining power or losing it. Positive thoughts generate power; negative ones waste it.
To climb upwards will be easier if you take others with you.
Happiness is a daily decision.
If things are not going right, despite the fact you feel you are doing the right thing, consider it a means to make you strong.
Whatever you do, you are creating your own future.
Why feel guilty? Learning how to forgive yourself is a better use of your time.
Live For Tommorow Even If It Never Comes Coz Living For Yesterday Leaves You A Step Behind The Rest...x

Here Carlene Firmin share her thoughts on children and the loss of an addicted parent. 

"When I heard about Whitney Houston's death, my thoughts turned to her daughter, Bobbi Kristina, 18, and the struggle she must be facing in dealing with the loss of her mother.

I have seen children lose a parent to addiction. Accompanying the grief of bereavement are tormenting feelings of anger and a lack of self-worth. I have heard children say their parent chose alcohol or drugs over them, or that as a son or daughter they "weren't worth sticking around for"." 

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I love my Mum, and she loves me but every time I look into her eyes I don't like what I see. 

Hi, when my mum was 8 years old she was anorexic and continued to be until 22 years old. She then switched from anorexia to alcoholism and prostitution.

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