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For young people living with a family member's addiction to drugs, alcohol or behaviour such as gambling

  • Having an alcoholic parent and turning things around

    Giselle has courageously shared her story of living with her mum's alcoholism in the Daily Mail, which is by far not an easy thing to do. Giselle now volunteers with our charity COAP — Children of Addicted Parents and People — going into schools to talk to youngsters about her experience in the hope of reaching out to others who may be going through something similar. 

    To read Giselle's inspiring story - click on this link to Daily Mail Femail

  • We have moved to coap.org.uk

    COAP has now moved to coap.org.uk (we used to be coap.co.uk). Please when you visit, can you type in coap.org.uk into the URL bar. If you have us saved or bookmarked don't forget to change it! Thanks everyone.

    This will help us to keep one URL and rise up google search engine so more young people can find us. 

Are you living with some one else's addiction to drugs, alcohol or some form of addictive behaviour such as gambling? We have a team of online mentors who live with or have lived with someone else's addiction - they are here to reply to your messages and offer support. 

Join in our supportive and ever growing online community- sign up and become a member! We have over 750 young people who have joined our online community. 

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Talk to others who understand. You are not alone anymore. 

Whitney Houston's daughter spoke on television for the first time about her mother's death and the battle she'd faced in life with substance abuse on Oprah's Winfrey's show. Emma Spiegler, 29, knows what it's like to grow up with a mother who's an addict. Her mum struggled with alcoholism and addiction to pain killers for many years. Emma talks about our online community where young people can talk to others who know only too well the pain of what it is like to grow up with a parent who has an addiction. 

Hi, my name is Savannah. I'm new to this site, I've been reading many stories.. And I feel ready to share mine. I am 18 years old and my mom is an addict. She has been this way my whole life, and since before I was ever born. Nothing has ever been stable for me.. She tried to run from her problems all of the time, I've lived in 4 states and over 26 homes. Her problem starts with alcohol but that is her gateway for using hard drugs. When I was young I never understood it, I knew something was...

Alcoholism Affecting Children

Hi everyone,

I am a 15 year old daughter of a bad Mother. Mum has been ill for as long as I can remember, in and out of hospital many of times. My Mum is an alcoholic. Mum is something I don't appreciate having in my life anymore. Mum is a wreck, a liar, a abuser. Mum is someone I still love truly, but a monster has taken over her body and controls her day and night. Mum's still alive, but seems dead to me. The wine I can visualise...

Hey i have decided to write my life down into a book and am starting with the blurb (the back cover description) and just wanted to know what you all thought- critisisms will be greatly appriciated :)

 

Why is it always me.. at 11 years old i have to hold everything together and by 3 different people at the same time! At home, the perfect, fun loving kid, At school the quiet geek who plays life as perfect and with my mam- whatever her mood makes me, perfect, a bad person...

Thoughts & Quotes

life is like a series of photographs you develop from the negatives.
When you need to fly from your home, it's not a home. Home should be where the birds feelings are free not caged.
nobody likes the rain but if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain.
♫ And the stars are always there but we miss them in the dirt and in the clouds we miss them in the storms. ♫
To the believer anything is possible, to the sceptic everything is impossible.
"the reason angels can fly is becuase they take themselves lightly"
Stay strong- Keep smiling =] and NEVER give up- there is always hope <3

I Just stumbled across this page by chance.... but as i write im starting to believe it is fate. My dad is a drug addict as has been since the day i was born.

Hey, just wondered do people drink with your parent?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfqEisOIMJc Hey everyone, this is my first post in creative corner. This song makes me feel emotional because of the lyrics, i find I can relate to them..can you?

Hey, this is my second post and sorry to say its not positive.

Sound Cloud: 
 

Philip speaks about being a child of an alcoholic father who drinks heavily and has made a Youtube Video to release some feelings and help other young people in similar situations.

Philip talks about the hardest thing to deal with regarding his father's drinking is the hurtful words.

"I just have to say that u describe so much of what i feel all the time and hearing u talking about this takes away the feeling of loneliness" 

Philip is a mentor for COAP. 

Hello. Im 15 and my mum is an alcoholic. She is the nicest, most amazing woman you could ever meet, except she has a problem. 2 weeks half term holiday and she didn't touch a drop.

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